Into the Deep

“Orphans?”
   “Jesus, at the moment of his ultimate self-sacrifice on the cross, sought to keep nothing for himself, and in handing over his life, he also handed over to us his Mother. He told Mary: Here is your son; here are your children. We too want to receive her into our homes, our families, our communities and nations. We want to meet her maternal gaze. The gaze that frees us from being orphans; the gaze that reminds us that we are brothers and sisters” (Pope Francis, Homily on the Solemnity of Mary Mother of God, January 1st, 2027) The late Pope insisted that day up to 4 times that we are not orphans. The main reason being: “we are a people with a Mother; we are not orphans”. Pretty much like today’s promise from the Gospel: “I will not leave you orphans;” (Jn 14:18)
   The Pope spoke of the “corrosive disease of being spiritual orphans”. What did he mean by that? It is what the “soul experiences when it feels motherless and lacking the tenderness of God, when the sense of belonging to a family, a people, a land, to our God, grows dim.” It “lodges in a narcissistic heart capable of looking only to itself and its own interests.” Many, not only in the Church, have described the present Western world as being ‘orphaned’: many people live without a strong sense of origin, belonging, or lasting guidance. Traditional bonds (family, community, and shared moral frameworks) have weakened, leaving individuals freer but also more isolated and uncertain about who they are. In particular, when it comes to our relationship with God, modern man has believed that completely denying God’s existence (theoretical atheism) or living as if God did not exist (practical atheism) would bring us maturity and independence. What has happened is that, in this state of orphanhood, we have lost our sense of dignity; and if we no longer have one Father, then we are not brothers and sisters to one another anymore.
   In this context, celebrating Mother’s Day in a fitting manner, while also honoring our Mother, the Virgin Mary, during May, has become more necessary than ever. At the heart of motherhood is precisely this promise: a presence that does not abandon, a love that remains, a fidelity that endures even in silence and sacrifice. A mother’s love is often the first experience of unconditional care a person receives. It is not earned; it is given. It is not calculated; it is poured out. In this way, motherhood mirrors divine love. God does not love us because we deserve it, but because He is love. The tenderness of a mother, her watchfulness, her patience, her quiet strength, becomes a living parable of that divine reality.
   And motherhood finds its highest expression in the Virgin Mary with her perfect openness to God’s will: “Let it be done to me according to your word.” (Lk 1:38) Her motherhood is both physical and spiritual: she gives birth to Christ and continues to care for His Body, the Church.
   And at the foot of the Cross she teaches us an urgent lesson that is particularly pressing in our time: motherhood is not just about protecting and pampering one’s child. It is much more than an exclusive emotional bond that wishes for the child never to change and never to leave the mother’s lap. Motherhood also requires the willingness to offer one’s child as a sacrifice so that he or she may fulfill their mission in life, just as Christ did on the cross with Mary as his co-redemptrix.
   Let’s conclude with a beautiful paragraph of Pope Francis’ same homily we started this article with: “Mothers are the strongest antidote to our individualistic and egotistic tendencies, to our lack of openness and our indifference. A society without mothers would not only be a cold society, but a society that has lost its heart, lost the “feel of home”. A society without mothers would be a merciless society, one that has room only for calculation and speculation. Because mothers even at the worst times are capable of testifying to tenderness, unconditional self-sacrifice and the strength of hope”.
   Happy Mother’s Day!

Previous Letters:

May 3, 2026: A Good Shepherd II
April 26, 2026: A Good Shepherd
April, 19, 2026: Necessary
April 12, 2026: Merciful Patience!
April 5, 2026: Breaking News!
March 29, 2026: Sic Transit Gloria Mundi
March 22, 2026: Lord of the Dead and the Living
March 15, 2026: Light and Darkness
March 8, 2026: Thirst and Desire
March 1, 2026: Transfigured
February 22, 2026: The Law of Freedom
February 15, 2026: In Defense of Marriage
February 8, 2026: Salt and Light
February 1, 2026: Poor Who Enrich
January 25, 2026: Catholic School Education
January 18, 2026: Humbled and Exalted
January 11, 2026: Born and Reborn
January 4, 2026: What’s the Price of a Mass?
December 28, 2025: Families Serving Families
December 21, 2025: Decisions
December 14, 2025: Make Firm
December 7, 2025: Hope and Justice
November 30, 2025: Armor of Light
November 23, 2025: Behold Your King
November 16, 2025: Remember Your Dignity
November 9, 2025: St. Leo and the Cross of Christ
November 2, 2025; Dying in Christ
October 26, 2025: Forgive Us
October 19, 2025: Pray For Us
October 12, 2025: Pillar of Faith
October, 5, 2025: Compendium of the Gospel
September 28, 2025: Failed to Do
September 21, 2025: An Enemy Did This
September 14, 2025: In Hoc Signo
September 7, 2025: My Son Carlo
August 31, 2025: Humility?
August 24, 2025: How Difficult?
August 17, 2025: Politically Incorrect
August 10, 2025: Got Faith?
August 3, 2025: Greed
July 27, 2025: Ask and You Shall Receive
July 20, 2025: The Better Part
July 13, 2025: Who is the Samaritan
July 6, 2025: Joy and Spoons
June 29, 2025: In Fire
June 22, 2025: A Beating Heart in the Tabernacle
June 15, 2025: The Mirror
June 8, 2025: Filled With the Holy Spirit
June 1, 2025: He Loved Us
May 25, 2025: Servant of Your Faith and Joy
May 18, 2025: Leo
May 11, 2025: The Deposit of Faith
May 4, 2025: Costly Mercy
April 27, 2025: Who is Peter?
April 20, 2025: I Make All Things New – Arise!
April 13, 2025: I Make All Things New – To Do My Penance
April 6, 2025: I Make All Things New – I Declared My Sin to You
March 30, 2025: I Make All Things New – I Firmly Resolve
March 23 2025: I Make All Things New –  I am Sorry for Offending You
March 16, 2025: I Make All Things New –  Examining Your Conscience
March 9, 2025: I Make All Things New
March 2, 2025: Pruning
February 23, 2025: The Anointed of the Lord
February 16, 2025: Be My Valentine
February 9, 2025: Wash Away My Guilt II
February 2, 2025: Wash Away My Guilt I
January 26, 2025: Catholic Education
January 19, 2025: Shall Marry You
January 12, 2025: Called by Name
January 5, 2025: Pilgrims of Hope
December 29, 2024: Priests for the Family
December 22, 2024: Messengers of Joy
December 15, 2024: Blessed Are the Poor
December 8, 2024: Love, Hope and Joy
December 1, 2024: Hope Does Not Disappoint
November 24, 2024: Are You King?
November 17, 2024: Seven Words
November 10, 2024: Tu es Petrus
November 3, 2024: Pray For Those Authority
October 27, 2024: These Are the Feasts
October 20, 2024: Someone Else
October 13, 2024: Be Prudent
October 6, 2024: Project and Dreams II
September 29, 2024: Projects and Dreams I
September 22, 2024: Pastor
September 15, 2024: Take Up Your Cross
September 8, 2024: Guardians of Shared Memory
September 1, 2024: From Their Hearts
August 25, 2024: The Cost of Discipleship
August 18, 2024: For Real?
August 11, 2024: Too Long For You
August 4, 2024: A New Manna
July 28, 2024: Bread of Life
July 21, 2024: Shepherds After My Own Heart
July 14, 2024: Woe to Me…
July 7, 2024: Come and Rest (II)
June 30, 2024: Come and Rest (I)
June 23, 2024: Storms
June 16, 2024: I Will be a Father to You
June 9, 2024: Burning Furnace of Love
June 2, 2024: In the Midst of Him
May 26, 2024: Forever I Will Sing the Goodness of the Lord
May 19, 2024: Through the Holy Spirit
May 12, 2024: The Ark of the Covenant
May 5, 2024: Source and Summit
April 28, 2024: Rejoice Always
April 21, 2024: I Believe in the resurrection of the body Part II
April 14, 2024: I Believe in the Resurrection of the Body Part 1
April 7, 2024: Rich in Mercy
March 31, 2024: Sine Dominico Non Possumus About Sunday
February 11, 2024: I Was Ill and You Cared For Me
February 4, 2024: Why Evil?
January 28, 2024: Catholic Schools Week
January 21, 2024: Attachments
January 14, 2024: The LORD Shines
January 7, 2024: Epiphany 2024
December 31, 2023: A Family of Families
December 25, 2023: New Beginnings
December 17, 2023: Christmas
December 3, 2023: Watch
November 26, 2023: Be Healed
November 19, 2023: Sealed
November 12, 2023: Religious?